One of the men who likes me, kind of laughed about the fact that my ex was Chinese, he asked me how could I like him.
I can’t let anyone be racist to others in my presence, especially to the person I loved with my whole heart, I chose him over the men of 5 continents who were pursuing a relationship with me at the same time, which means he was worthy enough, cool enough, amazing enough to be mine.
To be honest, I think he was one of the hottest man alive, I am proud he was my first, and I find it very disrespectful to my choice to laugh about his race. Why do people allow themselves to laugh about anyone? I prefer my ex’s one little finger over that man’s entire existence.
Why do they think they can overlook someone else because of his race or nationality?
Until Monday.
You’re deranged
Can’t really stop them. But, no. It’s unhealthy.
I rather had others try to keep me from gossiping about her hot&cold trip of 4 years.
No Never, will not tolerate.
Probably not, even though they are exes for a reason there was some other reason that made me want to date them in the first place.
I Can But Not Anyone Else. lolxxoo
I wouldn’t tolerate racism. (Wouldn’t apply to my ex.) If they want to call her what she is, so be it.
they could say anything they wanna say as I have none.
It depends on the break up and reasons there of. Also if it was said in front of our kids (if had any). If it was a good break up then usually no. Not at all.
Bad break ups are hard not to say anything bad from you or anyone else. Except in front of the kids (if any).
I don’t like it when people say bad about my ex or crushes.. we weren’t meant for each other gives no one any right to abuse her and slender her in any way. I just don’t like one of them who lied to me.
Depends what ex? Because some of them I will still happily kill for, so you saying something bad about them is the wrong choice.
The rest well yeah they are dead to me so sure.
Considering half my ex’s are Asian and they are the ones I loved the most not related to their race by the way, they just so happened to be the ones that were great. It would become the question of how do I kill this person twice.
Racist and also insulting the good ones.
Well firstly there are some very handsome Chinese men , I believe in karma so I dont like to go down any negative path , with anyone really.
I don’t really control what other people say. I can contend it if I know it’s inaccurate.
I don’t criticize women for having racial preference. I don’t expect them to express it either.
I try to be able to laugh at myself in good humor sometimes. It’s okay to discuss stereotypes, doesn’t mean it applies to any given individual.
I’d like to be seen for the decisions I’ve made with the choices that have been presented to me. That’s making a connection with another human being.
I don’t have the power to control what people say. However, on the few occasions that someone I was interested in have said something racist or ugly about a person of another race in my presence, I’ve written that person out of my life. Racism can make any person ugly as soon as they express it.
Most guys are jealous of your ex’s so it is just their insecurity making him make fun of him and put them down.. but why even bring up your ex to a new guy.. especially when you don’t like to talk about your past?
I’m glad when they say it early. They’re thinking it, so let me know so I can move along. If you’re thinking it but NOT saying, doesn’t make you any better, and eventually it’ll come out and end the same, so let’s just fast forward, shall we? Who are you really?
I’m glad you put your foot down. He didn’t know your history. He didn’t know the story. He just immediately started judging and trying to belittle your first love. All that revealed was his nasty personality. Instead of showing you what a great suitor he was, he resorted to putting down others and even exposed his own racism. It’s completely possible to shine bright without stepping down on other people. But he chose the dishonorable way. I’m happy you dodged a bullet. He wasn’t worth your time.